Using sex toys means it’s not working?

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The aphrodisiac expectation of sex toys is usually generated when "love" has temporarily left or has not yet entered the stage. It is used as a prop to warm up the scene, hoping to trigger the passionate "sex" so that the atmosphere of "love" can be more lively. If "love" is not added, the aphrodisiac expectation will be put into the realm of sexual fantasy, which may not be tolerated in society.

The reason why sex toys are pleasurable is very subjective, so users are educated to be very happy when using sex toys. Unpleasantness means that you are wrong, maybe it is the usage, maybe it is the object, maybe it is something else, in short, it is pleasurable.

Even if sex toys have the above expectations, they are still objects after all, and cannot replace the role of people in sex and love. In other words, sex toys are ultimately just auxiliary products or substitutes.

Sex toys are very "sexual" items in themselves, but after people intervene and use them, they must have "love". This contains a driving force that constantly elevates the status of love, causing the use of the product to be fully directed towards the direction of "love", ignoring its original connotation. This is inevitable when commodities are socialized.

There are usually several reasons why sexual partners use sex toys: partners like it, increase feelings, try it, etc., because the process of sexual intercourse is not a matter for one person, how to communicate effectively is not only related to the cognition of both parties, but also to maintain the emotions of the partners. When it comes to sex toys, it does not mean that sex is not good, but how the two parties communicate is the most important.

When entering into a sexual relationship, you must understand the sexual needs and attitudes of both parties, and jointly find a balance in sex. You must not face sex with the mentality of sacrificing the self to complete the greater self, or who should cooperate with whose needs. Perfect sex is an extremely important part of an intimate relationship and should not be easily ignored.

Seek the quality of each other's sex. The use of sex toys is aimed at satisfying the sex of both parties, not unilaterally. When using sex toys, remember to respect the feelings of the other party, not just enjoy it alone.

Avoid sexual communication in form. The main factor in the use of sex toys is to change the fixed pattern of sex and avoid sex becoming a formality. In fact, you can also achieve the above purpose by creating space, lighting and situations to increase sexual satisfaction!
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